



Last night I was jet lagged and sad. So sad, in fact, that this is what I wrote:
Pieces of me are all over the world.
Right now my life feels like a
messed up,
screwed up,
piece of travel warped craziness.
32 hours.
5 Airports.
A frozen tundra when we enter,
a tropical heatwave when we exit.
A DIFFERENT WORLD.
How can I live so far
from so many I love?
When did I get used to
NOT
having them around?
THEY
are the
ones
who
have been through the most…
THE LEAVING.
I’VE put an ACTUAL (insanely large) distance
in miles
in kilometers
in oceans
between my children
and
the people
who
love
them
MOST
in this world
(aside from us).
We made a choice for a different life…
but I miss them.
There is no more audience for my kids.
They change and grow without much external fanfare…
aside from our claps.
Which seem feeble
when compared to grandparent claps.
And sometimes,
at 3am,
when I have jet lag…
I wonder if it was the right choice.
Why do we put ourselves through it?
Can I handle another night of tears?
Tears from all of us.
Tears for grandparents,
cousins,
uncles,
and several awesome aunties in South Africa.
Is it right?
Is it wrong?
Or is it just what it is.
And then, after some sleep, I looked at the images above and I remembered. Life is not all about me. It’s about the things we believe in. The CHOICES we make to fulfill those beliefs. The ONE above that I have surrendered to, and the JOURNEY that we are on. A journey with a people we don’t yet understand. And you know what? Even though we don’t understand Burundians yet… I bet they will end up teaching us a whole lot more than we teach them.
Holding onto hope,
Kristy
All images
Hasselblad 501C
Fuji 400/Portra 400





We are enjoying some much needed family time. It is hard to believe that we are here, and our short time is going sooooo quickly. We are eating it up (I mean that literally) and Burundi already seems so very far away. Another world. For now, we are enjoying this one. It’s a world full of brothers and sisters and cousins and grandparents and cold and firsts. Our kids are getting some great “firsts” under their belts.
I think our whole family is finally coming out of our “we just got here” coma. We made it home to America in time for Christmas! In case you are new to the blog or just don’t get a chance to read every post (how could you!) we’ve rounded up a highlight reel for you.



The following few pics shot out the car windows. Aka: totally incredible images. Just kidding. Try bumpy, blurry ones.
Goat meat kabobs anyone? The goat is hanging right there so you can pick your cut of meat. That yellow container probably has banana beer in it. Good combo, banana beer and goat. Not much left, better hurry on down!
Move it cows, we’re comin’ through!


Arriving at this amazing community.


They stopped school and brought the students to us so that we could tell them about the importance of education and coffee farming for their community.

Ever wondered what it looks like to produce a TV show in the coffee hills. Well, it looks like this! Hi Wesley!
Myles does some cool drawings while the community meets with us about their project.







Why is it that sometimes the words just won’t come out? Is it because of the trouble that I sometimes have when I try to see past the bridge of my nose? They do say that when your vision is impaired it can effect your speech. For some anyway, obviously not everybody. Or is it because the words get all trapped up in a big cheesecloth in the sky and, even though I can smell them ripening, they just never make it down to me?
Sometimes life throws you a breather, a chance to slow down, a minute to reflect. For the past 6 months we have not taken time to breathe. Our lives have just been steaming forward like a freight train. We’ve been zooming past big change after big change and crisis after crisis at the speed of light.
The lovely people at
The rooms are spectacular, and sleeping in that beautiful bed was like a dream come true.
The shower and bath WORKED and were beautiful, which Coffee Guy and I marveled at. At one point we stood opening and closing a door with silly grins on our faces. They opened and closed without a “hitch” or a noise. We realized we haven’t opened a door like that in 4 months.
Coffee Guy went on an amazing walk at 4 in the morning to see chimpanzees (err… I thought that was a bit too early to be trekking about in the rainforest looking for primates. Primates scare me just a little. Or a lot. Maybe it’s a lot.).
As a family we went on a canopy tour, which scared this little momma to death at one point. Seeing my children high above the trees, swinging back and forth on a cable system almost gave me a heart attack. But it was a beautiful way to see Rwanda and lake Kivu. I had almost forgotten how much
The boys loved the rim flow pool and bothering the lodge staff as much as possible.
We had the pleasure of being honored guests at an African tea ceremony held in the lodge. What a beautiful experience.